What We’re About

Come as you are. Bring your curiosity. Leave the body hierarchy and assholery at the door.

Our Mission

The Whole Body Experience exists to create space for more honest, compassionate, and liberatory conversations about what it means to live in a body.

Our relationships with our bodies do not develop in isolation. They are shaped by families and communities, culture and media, healthcare and wellness systems, beauty standards, religion, race, gender, sexuality, size, ability, age, access, and the many messages we receive about which bodies are considered healthy, beautiful, worthy, safe, or belonging.

We also recognize that not all bodies move through the world with the same freedom, safety, access, or privilege.

We believe creating a better relationship with bodies is both deeply personal and inherently collective. When people have greater access to dignity, agency, resources, care, and belonging in their bodies, our communities become stronger too.

This experience exists to make room for more stories, question some of the narratives we've inherited, connect people with meaningful resources, and imagine something more compassionate together.

Every body has a story. This is a space to hear more of them.


What We Value

Dignity over hierarchy.
There is no "right" kind of body here. Bodies are not ranked according to size, health, appearance, ability, productivity, gender expression, age, or adherence to beauty or wellness ideals.

Curiosity over certainty.
We expect different experiences and perspectives. We don't need everyone to arrive at the same conclusions. We do ask that we remain willing to listen, learn, question our assumptions, and make room for complexity.

Agency, consent + choice.
You are the expert on your own lived experience. Participation is an invitation, not a demand. You are always allowed to pause, pass, step away, disagree, or choose what is supportive for you.

Brave space-making.
We don't promise that every conversation will feel comfortable, nor do we believe we can determine what safety feels like for another person. Instead, we intentionally create conditions that support consent, respect, accountability, choice, curiosity, and thoughtful engagement across difference.

Body neutrality + liberation.
You don't have to love your body to belong here. Our goal isn't to convince everyone to feel beautiful. We're interested in something larger: creating lives and communities in which bodies are afforded dignity, agency, care, access, pleasure, expression, and belonging.

Lived experience matters.
Research, education, and professional expertise have a place here—and so does the wisdom of lived experience. We believe there is tremendous value in hearing stories different from our own.

Community care.
Individual healing matters, but we don't believe every struggle with our bodies can—or should—be solved individually. We pay attention to the systems, environments, relationships, and resources surrounding people, too.


A Note About Religion + Spirituality

The Whole Body Experience is not religiously affiliated and does not promote or require adherence to any religion, spiritual tradition, or belief system.

We recognize that religion and spirituality can be meaningful sources of identity, culture, connection, ritual, healing, and belonging for some people. We also recognize that religious teachings and institutions have contributed to body shame, purity culture, exclusion, trauma, and disconnection for others.

Both realities are welcome to be named here.

Contributors or participants may speak about spirituality, religion, or their own beliefs when those experiences are part of their body stories. Their perspectives are their own and are not requirements or beliefs of The Whole Body Experience.

You do not need to believe—or not believe—anything in particular to belong in this conversation.


A Note About Politics + Human Dignity

The Whole Body Experience is not affiliated with a political party, candidate, or campaign. It is also not neutral about human dignity.

Bodies exist within cultures and systems, and those systems affect people's access to safety, healthcare, food, housing, movement, rest, representation, autonomy, and belonging. Conversations about bodies will sometimes intersect with race, gender, sexuality, disability, reproductive autonomy, economic inequality, religion, and public policy because these things shape people's lived experiences.

We welcome people with different backgrounds, beliefs, and political identities. We don't expect everyone in this community to think alike, vote alike, or agree with every speaker, participant, or idea they encounter.

Curiosity is welcome. Respectful disagreement is welcome. Learning, questioning, and even changing our minds are welcome.

What isn't welcome is dehumanization.

We will not ask people whose identities or humanity are being discussed to become the debate.

Our commitment is to the dignity and humanity of people across race, ethnicity, body size, gender identity and expression, sexual orientation, disability, age, religion, socioeconomic circumstance, and the many other ways human beings move through the world.

Everyone being welcome does not mean every behavior is welcome.

The Whole Body Experience is a place to encounter more of one another's humanity—not to argue about who is entitled to it.

Different stories. Different perspectives. Shared humanity.

You don't have to arrive with the perfect language.
You don't have to know everything.
You don't have to agree with everyone.

Come willing to listen. Come willing to be curious. Come willing to allow someone else's story to be different from your own.

Every body has a story.
This is a space to hear more of them.

The Whole Body Experience — Beyond the Room

More stories. More voices. More ways to participate. The Whole Body Experience doesn't end when we leave the room. Beyond the Room is where the conversation expands—with recorded guest voices, the State of the Body presentation, reflection and creative practices, community resources, and opportunities to explore what it means to live in a body right now, on your own time and in your own way.

    1. Introduction to The Whole Body Experience

      FREE PREVIEW
    2. How to Be Here : Approaching this experience with curiosity, care, and courage

    3. Reflection before reaction

    4. Agreements for participation

      FREE PREVIEW
    5. The River Remembers: A Land Acknowledgment & Reflection on Belonging

      FREE PREVIEW
    6. Our Mission & Values

    7. A Note About Care & Support

    8. A Note About Sharing This Work

    9. Playlists are my love language- my mix tape for you

    10. Continue the Conversation | Beyond the Room Community

    1. The State of the Body

    2. Every body has a story

    3. Health, Beauty & the Body

    4. Soft eyes practice

    5. Seeing each other practice PDF

      FREE PREVIEW
    6. My Body Has a Story, Too

    7. A working, living glossary to know betters better.

    1. Meet Jackie

    2. Jackie's story part 1

    3. Jackie's story part 2

    4. Jackie's story part 3

    5. Jackies story part 4

    6. Jackie's story part 5

    7. Jackie's story final

    8. Meet Meg | Beyond the Hair, Beyond the Labels

    9. The art of body healing.

    10. Crowned: hair, power and identity (intro)

    11. Crowned: part 1

    12. Purity Culture and body image

    1. Thoughts on being a regulated body and ally with SaraJane Herrboldt, MA LPC, NCC

    2. The Stories We Inherit

    3. What Is Body Image, Anyways?

    4. Breasts Not Included

    5. Inclusive language guide

    6. Language beyond appearance printable

    1. Body Liberation: Whose Voices Are We Listening To? Resources for collective care and wellbeing

      FREE PREVIEW
    2. Resources for Continued Learning

    3. Learning resources and links

    4. Support and access guide

    5. West Michigan Community Support Guide

    1. When Reflection Isn't Enough

    2. Welcome to The Reflection Room

    3. What's this stirring?

    4. This Is Part of My Story : A quiet embodied reflection

    5. What the world wrote on my body (art project reflection)

    6. The stories I inherited map and reflection activity

    7. From Body Image to Body Justice

    8. What Bodies Carry : Trauma, systems, generations, and embodied social justice

    9. Walk Through the Room: An embodied social justice practice

    10. Where Do I Hold Power? Where do I fit?

    11. A body worthy world

Get the experience my way

  • 2.5 hours of video content

How will I know this space is for me?

How will I know this space is safe for me? I could call The Whole Body Experience a safe space, but I don't get to decide what feels safe for your body. Instead, we're practicing brave space-making: creating conditions for care, consent, curiosity, choice, and accountability. You won't be required to share your story, explain your body, participate in an activity, be photographed, or disclose something personal in order to belong. We can honor different experiences without needing to understand or agree with everything. For some, participating from home may feel more supportive or accessible. The digital experience allows you to pause, skip, rest, reflect privately, and return when you're ready. There is no more courageous way to participate—only the way that works for your body.

FAQ

  • “What will I find here?”

    Inside Beyond the Room, you'll find: State of the Body — Jen's exploration of what it means to live in a body in this particular cultural moment Guest voices + recorded conversations bringing perspectives and lived experiences beyond what we can hold in the room Reflection + creative practices to help you explore your own body story The Whole Body Community Care Guide connecting you with practitioners, organizations, artists, resources, and offerings Additional resources and opportunities to keep exploring the conversation

  • “Do I need to attend in person?”

    No. You can choose the Digital Experience without attending the October 10 gathering in Grand Rapids. If you purchase an in-person ticket, Beyond the Room is already included with your registration. You do not need to purchase both.

  • “Is this live or self-paced?”

    Beyond the Room is designed to be explored on your own time. You don't need to be online at a particular hour or move through the material in a particular order. Pause. Come back. Skip something. Spend longer with something that matters to you. There is no catching up here.

  • “Who is this for?”

    You don't need a certain relationship with your body to belong here. You may be questioning messages you've inherited about health, beauty, food, movement, gender, aging, ability, sexuality, spirituality, or worth. You may work with other people's bodies as a therapist, teacher, healthcare provider, coach, caregiver, or community worker. You may be years into unlearning—or only beginning to notice there is something you'd like to question. You might love your body. You might struggle with your body. You might be completely exhausted by the idea that you're supposed to spend your life learning to love your body. You don't need a particular body story to participate. You just need to live in one.

  • “What if some of this feels tender?”

    Choice is part of this experience. Some of these conversations may touch tender places in our relationships with our bodies, identities, histories, or communities. You're always invited to engage with what feels supportive and leave what doesn't. Pause. Step away. Return later. Skip a conversation. Journal instead. Move your body. Take what serves you. You are the expert on your own lived experience.